Do you have High Standards when dating or are you Picky?
Have friends and family told you, you’re too picky and this is why you can’t find and keep a relationship?
Do you find yourself compromising your own standards when you date, or commit to relationships, because you don’t want to be "too picky", and end up alone?
If you're like many strong, smart, successful, busy women I have the pleasure of coaching, you're likely to be using your masculine energy, at least 75-80% of the time in your business, your career, managing and organising your personal life, your home, and your family.
That's the purpose of our Masculine energy to help us accomplish our priorities and goals.
Where this isn't beneficial is in your Dating Life and Relationships.
There are many articles about the importance of amplifying your feminine energy in dating, so we know it's important and I'm often reminded when coaching my clients, that there is just as much misunderstanding about what exactly it is. and how to apply it. READ MORE
I'm a believer in setting a strong foundation for dating success, which starts with us.
With that said, here are my "12 Back to Basics Principals for Dating Success" to support you in dating authentically, confidently and trusting yourself without overwhelm and confusion
I recommend keeping these in mind as your dating compass to keep you on track during your dating journey. READ MORE
When did you last say or hear…
Men are intimidated by strong women!
Men are only interested in Looks!
All men are the same!
Despite these common thoughts held by many women, the truth is, they do want to attract a meaningful, loving, loyal, committed relationship and be loved.
If these 5 qualities don’t make you feel safe or impress you; then their looks, education, and even values really don’t count at all. READ MORE
I am often asked, "Where can I find quality Single Men".
It's one of the most asked questions by relationship minded single women I work with.
There are a few elements to the answer, which all link together to create more effortless ways to inspire connection from quality men.
Before identifying a few overlooked places to explore, it's important to be conscious of three keys to inspiring connection, otherwise, regardless where you go, you're not likely to see , meet or be approached by quality men. It starts with these. READ MORE
If you are not moving closer to your dream relationship, it's important to be aware and acknowledge that the way you are dating right now, may not be serving you.
I'm sharing the 14 Common Dating traps that Single women and men easily fall into.
These have been identified by David Steele, the Founder of the Relationship Coaching Institute and the Author of Conscious Dating: Finding the Love of Your Life & the Life That You Love
If attracting your dream relationship is 2018, is one of your heart goals, . now is the time to make sure you are relationship ready and make the decision to have a fresh positive, approach and outlook to meeting someone special…and acting on it. READ MORE
What are your 5 Star Standards in how you want to be Treated when you're dating?
I work with successful, smart, strong women, and a common theme is that whilst they know their standards about how they want to be treated by a quality man, they dance around upholding them in a smart, subtle, feminine energy way during the early discovery period and beyond. READ MORE
Your “list” can and often does make the difference between moving you towards a meaningful relationship or holding you back from one.
Here’s why it’s important to distinguish between being “picky” and having the right high standards.
The big difference between having High Standards and being Picky. read more
Do you find yourself over thinking, analysing as well as having negative self-talk running through your mind when it comes to dating and meeting men? This is an attraction killer, you may not realise is influencing how your date perceives you. read more
A guest post by my friend Jonathan Jay Esslinger
Healthy relationships have a lot of honest self-disclosure. The topic of honesty comes up enough in our clinical settings that it is worth exploring deeper.
This post offers a sort of primer on things that relationship experts would encourage you to consider around honesty and self-disclosure. This is the kind of relationship advice a professional relationship counsellor would give to you. READ MORE
Writing your online dating profile and selecting your best photographs are the most challenging steps for most of the 91 million people around the world, using relationship and dating sites.
It “should” be straightforward and simple to express the essence of you, in an intriguing intelligent and engaging way.
The truth is, all the advice in the world doesn’t change the fact that, that writing about you, in such a personal way, is intimidating, and makes us feel vulnerable and nervous.
The added pressure of being “out there” in public intensified it. READ MORE
The stigma once attached to using Online Dating is outdated. It's now a credible and convenient way to connect, to other likeminded singles you would not ordinarily have the chance to meet in your day-to-day busy life.
The fact that only 2% of couples have met at a bar (eHarmony), tells us that isn't enough.
Relationship sites are now used more by relationship-minded singles in their 30’s 40’s and over than ever before. HERE
One of the most frequently asked questions I receive, by women is how can they tell the man they’re dating is genuine and sincere.
Especially when he says all the right things when they’re dating.
These aren’t inexperienced women. They are smart, successful, educated and savvy in business and life.
They, like many women, who have encountered their fair share of players, over the top charmers, and married men pretending to be single or separated; don’t want to raise their hopes just to be disappointed again. READ MORE
Dating and finding one of the most significant relationships in your life can and should take time.
The journey needs patience and resilience to handle the inevitable setbacks along the way.
What are the dating challenges ruminating in your mind?
Your beliefs can be the biggest obstacles to attracting your ideal partner, and often are.
Are your beliefs supporting your mission to attract your ideal partner?
Have you been stuck in the dating scene for way too long?
I had the pleasure of being interviewed by datingspot.co.uk for their interview series with International dating experts. I share my thoughts on dating, game playing, and what men and women are looking for. READ MORE
Just a few years ago, online dating was shunned as the lazy or desperate way of finding your match.
In fact, the practice has become so prevalent, that meeting someone offline will soon be a rarity.
Before going online, it’s important to know what you’re doing. Listed below are six tips you should follow for dating in the digital age. READ MORE
It usually takes being blind-sided by a bad relationship to realize what a good one should really feel like.
I have heard many similar stories of disappointment, from smart, successful, loving male and female coaching clients
So why do people miss or ignore red flags, when it comes to choosing and committing to a partner that isn't right for them.