As unromantic as it may feel sometimes, our journey to finding real love today needs the right amount of “work”.
It’s worth it though right?
After all, you’re selecting one of the most important relationships in your life without settling or compromising on your most important needs.
Your selective, smart dating plan and staying open are the keys to creating many high-quality opportunities for you to meet that one special person.
ARE YOUR “MUST HAVE’S” RELATIONSHIP MATERIAL? READ MORE
I'm a believer in setting a strong foundation for dating success, which starts with us.
With that said, here are my "12 Back to Basics Principals for Dating Success" to support you in dating authentically, confidently and trusting yourself without overwhelm and confusion
I recommend keeping these in mind as your dating compass to keep you on track during your dating journey. READ MORE
Your “list” can and often does make the difference between moving you towards a meaningful relationship or holding you back from one.
Here’s why it’s important to distinguish between being “picky” and having the right high standards.
The big difference between having High Standards and being Picky. read more
many of us are not trained or taught how to have lasting, committed relationships; and underestimate the self-preparation needed to date smart, chose selectively, and to navigate the normal ups and downs of sharing your life with a partner READ MORE
If these 5 qualities don’t make you feel safe or impress you; then their looks, education, and even values really don’t count at all. READ MORE
We hear countless reasons why high value, attractive, successful relationship ready women have not been inspired by their date.
Some reasons are down to being too picky, but overall there are common and distinct differences between the men which have that “edge” and inspire interest and attraction in women; and those who were forgotten by the time she returned home or by the end of the week/month. Read More
Your level of Emotional Maturity, and of the people you date ultimately determine your level of dating success read more
I once went on a date with a gorgeous guy that I was star struck by, and took him a gift on the first date! read more
One of the most common reasons that dating someone new doesn't progress to a relationship; and why some relationships end as quickly as they started, for secure emotionally healthy and happy men and women is... read more
Let’s face it, as a smart, experienced single lady or man you’ve reached a point in your life where you absolutely know what you don’t want in a relationship.
You don’t want to waste time on the wrong relationship that’s for sure.
You have failed relationships and painful break-ups behind you, and you’re not going to settle. You shouldn’t!
If you are Single you will already know that it isn’t an easy task to find your diamond.
You may have tried internet dating, dating apps, or hope to meet that special person through your social and professional circle; but feel disheartened by the results.
It’s a challenge globally that many decent relationship- minded Singles of all ages, gender and nationality are facing. Despite being more connected via technology than ever, singles feel that making the quality, genuine connections they are hoping for is harder than ever.
“There is an epidemic of boring in our society. And this plagues all of us.
Boring kills dates, networking events, sales and deals.
But, when we fight dullness we are more attractive, more memorable and more likable”. Vanessa van Edwards- the science of people
Our conversational skills are one way to avoid being boring and are often taken for granted and under-estimated.
Valentine’s Day either fills you with excitement; or the Valentines Schmalentines feeling of dread, depending on the meaning you place on it.
It has become one of the top ten most celebrated and commercial days of the year all over the world....
There are some men who naturally and effortlessly attract attention and attraction from women.
It isn't just about their physical appearance or their style.
There are handsome men, with great style, but they don't possess these simple qualities and behaviours which spark respect and attention from quality commitment minded ladies.
When did you last say or hear…
Men are intimidated by strong women!
Men are only interested in Looks!
All men are the same!
Let’s be honest, these comments are as common as hearing ...do you want sugar in your coffee?
What makes someone attractive to you?
What exactly is it about a Man or Lady that sparks your curiosity, and interest making you want to know more?
Is it their looks, their sense of humor, their attitude to life?
"Well that doesn’t surprise me, I’m glad you did"
"Why is that?” I asked even though I knew what she was going to say.
"I didn’t trust him, the minute my back was turned"
Do you have High Standards when dating or are you Picky?
Have friends and family told you, you’re too picky and this is why you can’t find and keep a relationship?
Do you find yourself compromising your own standards when you date, or commit to relationships, because you don’t want to be "too picky", and end up alone?
There are no Good Men out there!
Men don’t like Strong/Smart Women!
All Women only want a rich man!
All married men cheat!